Welcome to my annual 12 DAYS OF GIVEAWAYS!
If you’re new to this – here’s how it works:
1. Each day from December 1 through December 12 I will put up a new giveaway HERE on my website with instructions on how to enter, a detailed description of the prize, and some stuff about the book or series. Each giveaway is different and each has ONE WINNER. MY GIVEAWAYS ARE ALWAYS OPEN INTERNATIONAL
2. Each giveaway runs UNTIL DECEMBER 13.
3. Winners are CHOSEN and NOTIFIED on December 14. I will be notifying winners USING THE EMAIL USED TO COMMENT ON THIS BLOG – and all winners will BE LISTED AT THE TOP OF EACH GIVEAWAY POST HERE ON MY WEBSITE on December 14.
4. Winners have 24 hours to respond, then another winner will be chosen.
5. ALL PRIZES WILL BE MAILED ON DECEMBER 15. If I’m waiting on a winner to respond and they miss the December 15 mail date, that prize will be mailed when I get around to it. I live in the middle of nowhere so a trip to the post office is a “thing” for me. 🙂 So make sure you’re checking for winners on the 14th.
6. I will send newsletters announcing giveaways on December 1, December 6, December 12, and a Winner newsletter on December 14. I NEVER send this many newsletters in a month so sorry if that feels spammy.
7. You can also FOLLOW MY BLOG. I will also make a blog post HERE announcing ALL WINNERS on the 14th. If you want to follow this blog there will be a form at the bottom of each post to do that. Then you get an email when I POST HERE. I don’t do that often – December is the exception because of the 12 Days and my yearly “Wrap-up” post.
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THAT’S IT! I HOPE YOU ALL ENJOY THIS!
All prizes this year are self-care book boxes filled with holiday and luxury items
NOW LET’S GET ON TO THE FIRST GIVEAWAY!
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NOW LET’S GET ON TO THE NEXT GIVEAWAY!
IN EACH POST I WILL HIGHLIGHT A BOOK
TODAY’S BOOK HIGHLIGHT IS BOSSY BROTHERS SERIES!
TWISTED & SPICY ENEMIES-TO-LOVERS SERIES-COMPLETE ROMANCE
DESCRIPTION
THIS SERIES IS COMPLETE!
THERE’S A BROTHER FOR EVERYONE…
Bossy Jesse
A hilarious enemies-to-lovers romance that features a bachelor auction gone wrong, four bossy ladies who botch a crazy revenge kidnapping, a reverse dream-date, and a misunderstood billionaire called Jesse who just wants a second chance to win the girl he accidentally ghosted thirteen years ago.
Bossy Joey
A delicious, hot, MMFM, surprise-baby, fake fiancée story with a twist that proves committed couples don’t just come in two’s, mistakes can be a good thing, and for some people, non-traditional love is exactly the kind they should fight for.
Bossy Johnny
An enemies-to-lovers romance features a prince saving his princess from a life of hell, one or ten romantic gestures from a tattooed bad boy, swimming with glowing dolphins in the Bahamas, and secrets so deep everyone almost drowns.
Bossy Bride
Jesse and Emma are getting married. Kind of. Bossy Bride is a rompy, whirlwind trip down a rabbit hole of “Fantasy” Vegas weddings planned by a man called “Fingers” and just when you think nothing else could go wrong—a mermaid descends from the ceiling.
Bossy Alonzo
A long-distance game of online catfishing filled with dirty talking and scrumptious selfies between a tatted-up fisherman and a small-town librarian. Until the day all their safely-hidden secrets come spilling out and they realize… Love in the Land of fake Far, Far Away can’t ever compare to the real thing.
Bossy Tony
A friends-to-lovers AND enemies-to-lovers romance featuring two girls falling for the wrong men and two men falling for the right girls. A story filled with second chances, grand gestures, and the unexpected soul mate that will drive you crazy but leave you satisfied at the end.
Bossy Luke
A sweet and seductive MMF with two hot, committed men and a pink-haired gossip reporter desperate for a scoop. But when she stumbles into more secrets than she can handle, her boys need to call on all the Boston and Dumas brothers to keep her safe.
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NARRATED BY
ALL YOUR FAVORITES!
(PRETTY MUCH EVERY FAVORITE NARRATOR YOU HAVE IS IN THIS LINEUP!)
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Narrated by TEDDY HAMILTON and AVA ERICKSON.
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GIVEAWAY #10
BOSSY BROTHERS GIFT SET
WHAT’S IN THE BOSSY BROTHERS GIFT SET!
- Signed Copies of SPECIAL EDITION HARDCOVERS OF BOSSY JESSE AND BOSSY ALONZO!
- JA Huss “BOOK STACK” Tote Bag
- Turning Series “Life of the Rich and Infamous” Hand-Poured Candle (made by ME!)
- Book Review Checklist Notepad
- Tokyo Milk “Honey & the Moon” Salt Soak
- Tokyo Milk “You’re Still Irresistibly Foxy” Candle Tin
- Tokyo Milk “Sending you a Bear Hug” Soap
- Scrunchie!
- Shower Steamer!
- Fuzzy Socks!
- Organic Cotton Tea Towel
- 2026 JA Huss Swag Bag (Sticker Sheet, Sticker, Lip Balm, Pen, Drawstring Bag)
AND HERE’S HOW TO ENTER TO WIN TODAY’S GIFT SET!
ALL GIVEAWAYS ARE ALWAYS OPEN INTERNATIONAL!
(1) COMMENT HERE on the blog (below) and tell me –
What’s a risk you took that paid off?
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MY ANSWER
Looking back on my life I think people would describe me as a MASSIVE RISK TAKER but I don’t actually feel that’s true. I have taken a lot of big risks. LOTS. But very, very few of them were SPONTANEOUS. I’m a PLANNER.
So I think all my big risks paid off. I quit my job as a dental assistant when I was in my late 20’s (single mom, two kids) and moved to another city to go back to school and get two science degrees. I don’t regret that education at all. It led me many places. But I was ready for it. I had a full-ride scholarship, a clear goal, and a student apartment waiting for me when I arrived in Fort Collins, Colorado.
THEN… I quit my job in my early forties to become a fiction writer. Again, I was ready for this. I had been writing non-fiction for five years before I quit my job. I started my own homeschool science curriculum business in 2008 and worked at it until 2013 (and it was pretty successful for being small). Then I took that money and used it to launch my fiction career. I was ready for it.
That’s just two of them. But I’ve taken many big risks and none of them have flopped.
If I could impart on you ONE PIECE OF ADVICE, especially if you’re feeling stuck, BIG RISKS CHANGE YOUR LIFE. They burn bridges that must be burned in order to make room for new exploration. Make a decision that FORCES YOU FORWARD and the Universe will respond by showing you a new path.
Here’s the critical part… YOU MUST STEP UP. When the universe says, “Fine, Risk-Taker. You want a new life? Here’s your new fucking life. Go forth, find your dream.” <–YOU MUST STEP UP and say, “OK. See ya on the other side…” You must walk across that bridge (Whatever that is that’s comfortable, but holding you back) and burn it down so you can’t return.
That’s the secret of life.
That’s how you change everything.
Or, in other words… become “Your Favorite Character” at the 25% mark in your favorite book. If you look up the 25% mark in your favorite book you will see the bridge that gets burned.
Your life is a story.
Act like a main character and you will become one.
AND HERE is a sneak peek of tomorrow’s giveaway!
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I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A VERY HAPPY HOLIDAY AND NEW YEAR.
Stay calm, stay safe, and let’s have a great 2026!
WINNERS FOR ALL GIVEAWAYS will be chosen on December 14 and announced on my blog and in my newsletter. All gifts will be mailed on December 15th with priority mail, so hopefully you get them before the big day. ALL MY GIVEAWAYS ARE ALWAYS OPEN INTERNATIONAL.
598 Responses
Honestly giving up what I thought was my dream to follow my love to Oklahoma from California and becoming a nurse instead 🙃 I love my job and I love to care for people way more than I thought.
It’s been a good year despite all of my many Health problems. I do not have any risks.
Travelling to Gabon in West Africa to work in a casino. It kicked off my love of travel.
Meeting a guy my friend set me up with, had a disastrous first day and now here we are 20 years later about to celebrate our 18th wedding anniversary next year with 3 kiddos living the dream!!
PS I am convinced one of these years you’re gonna pick my name for the 10th day…it’s my birthday 🤣
When my daughter was sick at the age if 6 we had to nake a decision if I stayed home or stayed working. We decided that I should quit my job and stay home with our girl. I must say I was very lucky to be able to do that.
Online dating – finally went out with a guy I’d talked to for 3 months, …. married 20 years this January.
When I changed jobs. Best decision ever!
I don’t have a good response to the question, but I am loving reading Julie and everyone else’s comments. Love you Bitches!
Changing jobs!
Quitting my jon when my son was born to stay home with him and continuing to be a stay at home mom when my daughter was born two years later. Getting to be there for the younger year of their lives was so special. I wouldn’t change that for the world. Now my kids are older and we run our own business from our home so we still get to be with them.
Honestly I am not a risk taker at all haha I am such an anxious planner.
Switching jobs after 10 years
My risk that I took that paid off was enjoying the air force in 1993 And I got to do a lot of traveling learn a lot of new things meet a lot of great and interesting people. It taught me to be the person that I am today.
Moving from Missouri to California in 2017.
I invested in two condos, I’m glad I did it, it was a huge decision for me!
I am not a risk taker. I over think the things lot of times.
Over 10 years ago I quit my job, packed my stuff and moved across the state to live with my boyfriend. We are still together and our life is going good.
Looking back on my life I can’t say that any of the risks I took came back in a positive way. That sounds kind of sad but I’m not sorry about my life. I know there is more out there and I have not stopped taking leaps of faith.
I fought fir my disability for 2 years and finally got approved.
I took a gap year and transferred to a community college in Fall 2023. Now I am proud to say that I passed my first semester of nursing school!
I am not really a huge risk taker, but the big one I did long long ago was decline a job offer to continue working a temp job. The temp job eventually turned perm and I made connections that I still have and value today. I learned new skills that I came to absolutely love, which I wouldn’t necessarily have had the opportunity to discover otherwise.
I’ve just took early retirement to spend a few months with my son and his new family in China. An even bigger risk is I’m letting my other son and his new wife stay in my home while I’m away.
Putting myself out there for the supervisor position at work. If my boss had said he didn’t think it was something I’d be able to do, I wouldn’t have done it. As it was, he said he was pleased that I stepped forward and asked.
Happy holidays 🎄❤️🎄
The biggest risk was moving in with my boyfriend of less than six months. There was no going back home if it didn’t work. I also changed careers midstream. I could pick up computer programs and concepts easily and it kept me flipping departments.
I’m not much of a risk taker, more spontaneous perhaps. I make decisions on freetime activities all of a sudden and escape to great adventures.
Fighting for disability for as long as I did. I fought for 8 years to be approved for disability because the disorders I had were not commonly known. I was denied multiple times and went to court multiple times but I kept on fighting. Now 13 years after having to quit my job for health reasons, and 8 years of fighting back and forth I am now approved for disability
I’ve been in my profession for 27 years. I worked for 12 years in a multidisciplinary health clinic, owned by others. I took a huge leap of faith and opened my own. 13 years later we are still going strong. Being the owner is a huge change and an increase in responsibility
Changing jobs, taking a risk and leaving one place to become happier and healthier
Stopped working one out of my two jobs to improve my mental health and to focus on nursing school. Best decision ever!
I took a risk changing careers with a significant pay cut and it’s paid off because I love my job now while I hated my previous career choice. Another risk I took was moving from Chicago where I had a good job, friends and social network to Florida where I didn’t know a single person, but it seems to be a good choice, I think.
My risk was marrying my husband at 21and having our first home and son within the next year. I’ve been a stay at home mum and loved seeing my three sons grow into wonderful men.
I am really not a risk taker, but maybe this year I will give it a try!
I don’t really take risks
I left my job I was at for 8 years for a new one, the new one is much better but I was scared at the time
Leaving my first husband!!!
I got engaged to a man I knew only 2 weeks. And 8 months later married him. We just celebrated 28 years of marriage.
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I am not a risk- taking person. I analyze everything and then make a decision. Thank you for the chance. Merry Christmas to you all!
I retired at 56 years old from the State of NY. Bought an RV at the same time and rental property across the street My husband is disabled so pretty risky The RV is awesome. Rental property is a pain in the ass but retirement was the best thing I ever did. Was worth the 36 years of working because we travel out of the cold for a few months. PS. Love the Bossy stories
When I was 30 I packed up my two boys and moved from CA to CO by myself ~ 25 years later I am still here, married and have grandkids.
I left a Stable but miserable job I thought I would be at forever, making minimal money to be be a contractor without a guarantee of hire but making more money. I was hired two months in, have been there 7 years, have had three promotions and hopefully another one by the end of the year. I’m making more money that I ever thought I would with no college and coming from my family, it’s stable, good work life balance, and. I’m happy.
Making a pair of earrings to match a brooch a client wanted. The brooch was made in Australia & shed had it for 20 years, always wished she got the earrings. I still not sure how I managed it, but they matched perfectly. Only just started making jewellery at the time & that was over 10 years ago.
Went to my now husband’s house for our 1st in person meeting/date. 15 years now!!
I quit a job that had me anxious and stressed without another job lined up. I just couldn’t work there anymore. After months of looking for something else and going through most of my savings I finally found my dream job and have been there for eight years so far…
I asked the hot guy at the gym on a date…we’ve been together 13 years 😇
Reconnecting with someone from my past. Thank you for the chance to win.
Quitting college and getting married, then went to nursing school
We risked our livelihood to buy a farm/ranch. My husband continued working his full time job until we became profitable, but we did it. Now we are retired early and our daughter is running the operation.
Quitting my job to be a mom and then finding something different that better suit me. Its been a blessing for sure
The biggest risk I took that paid off was leaving my classroom teaching career after 14 years to support my husband’s career move and become a sahm. It was the best decision ever! I still used my education background to tutor, and eventually trained to specialize in teaching reading and spelling to individuals with dyslexia. I’m now doing that remotely and have students from across the country.
I think I have a lot of answers for this. But I’m gonna say married my best friend at a young age. Everyone said no and that we were stupid and it won’t last but here we are 26 years later and we haven’t killed each other. 😆
I fear my big risk is coming up at the beginning of next year. A big career change that’s leaves the career I settled for in the dust. I’ll have to go through school first but I am going to do whatever it takes because I’m tired of settling and putting me last. I really want my younger self to say “There she is. Hell fucking yeah!” Lol
Oh this is a good question. Many, many years ago I did something bad that ended with me being on probation. I was 19 and dumb and my friends really really wanted to go out to a party. Even though I should not have gone because I could’ve ended up back in jail. I tagged along. At this said party I meet a boy. Who kept chatting me up and I really wasn’t in the mood so I kept being a big ole meany to him. Well he didn’t care I was mean. When I was not paying attention he asked my friends for my info and they just gave it to him. Fast forward a couple weeks and he kept popping up where I was. Talking to me and all that. I was like “okay he’s like super interested and he’s cute” so f it. I’ll go on one little date with him. I went on one date with him. And he was everything I ever dreamed of. One week later we moved in together and now we have 11 years together and 2 wonderful children. That was the biggest risk I’ve ever taken that paid off. Going out with a complete stranger.
I’m not a big risk taker. I’m going to be moving to a different state, just me and my girls. I guess that could be considered risky but I know it will be worth it to start over.
Having gastric bypass surgery. I am healthier and happy with myself.
I am not a risk taker ,but if I had to pick one is moving from Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada to Calgary, Alberta, Canada.
Funny how so many quit a work a day job to do something else. I too quit my job and joined my husband’s business and we expanded and have been at it since 1995. Planning on retiring next year, now what to do next?
Calling a spade a spade in leadership and taking on the VA. It paid off in arbitrartion and got rid of several shitty leadership
Oversandman. 15 yrs ago, I quit my apt manager job, moved to another city clear across the state, and trained to be a landman.
Don’t know what my phone was interpreting I was trying to say…I was just saying over 15 yrs ago🤣
Trying a new hobby, it was fun to learn new things and create.
Leaving my previous career to start a new one in my 40s. Scary, but I am so happy with my Job now!
I feel every decision is a risk to some degree cause it’s changes the status quo. But my biggest was moving across the country from the north east to the south west. I’m loving it in sunny Arizona. I may have to move again for family since they are getting older and need help but now I’m not afraid of those changes. I embrace them.
Marrying my high school sweetheart!
Love this!! “become “Your Favorite Character” at the 25% mark in your favorite book. If you look up the 25% mark in your favorite book you will see the bridge that gets burned.
Your life is a story.”
My first degree is in art. I worked 2-3 jobs at a time to make ends meet, tried to fit in time for making art… and decided I should quit that life and go to nursing school. I adore being a nurse! I finally have time to make art. .. when I’m not mom-ing.
Homeschooling my daughter.
Becoming a Realtor at the same time I was teaching school. Best risk ever!
When I quit my job to stay home and teach my kids full time. My daughter was bullied in middle school and nothing was done about it until my daughter finally snapped and she was the one that got in trouble. That’s when I decided to to stay home and teach both my kids
Marrying my husband
Marring my husband. He asked we literally went to the Justice of the Peace that afternoon on his lunch hour. And we have been married for 31 years now. I love him so much!
The biggest risk I took was asking my husband of 30 years now, out on a date. He was so shy that it took me 6 months just to get him to talk to me. He still doesn’t talk much but we have been together for 34 years.
Changing jobs really paid off in my favor. Less stress and bullshit
I own a mobile pet grooming business and a few years back everything was going wrong. My generator broke right after the warranty was up (2 years) should have lasted at least twice that. And I couldn’t afford a new one without using credit, which I didn’t want to do I was paying bests off so I could afford to live after my dad was gone. I had moved in w and I was caring for my dad after he was paralyzed in a home invasion. I was completely stressed out at how much I was gone for work and leaving him alone. Than 2 months later, Christmas Eve on my way home the bus was running horrible felt like the transmission was gonna fall out, I prayed and I made it home. It was freezing out and snowing. I had days off for the holidays and I was like ok god. I hear you it time to stop being mobile. So I used my generator and the rig having issues to quit going out and have my clients come to me. Some quit me didn’t want to drive that far themselves but others continued w me. I was able to be home for my dads last few years and work to support myself. Making more than I had being mobile cause less expenses, , even w less clients. I paid off my debts and got to be there for my dad. Best decision I was forced to make.
Moving to Colorado
Changing jobs 30 years ago. They paid me well and treated me like family.
Moved to Vegas and ended up meeting my hubby. We’ve been married for 19 years now.
I left my regular job to run my own business. I’m a seamstress and it supports my family and has for the last 6 years
Oh that’s a hard one. I’m not a risk taker by nature. I’d have to say changing jobs over the years. I’ve always bettered myself in the jobs I’ve taken. So I guess its paid off in that regard.
Dating my Fiancé. I’m from a rural area that is almost entirely white and is pretty racist. My Fiancé is black, and it was quite an ordeal when we started dating. But after a rough start for us, it has finally settled down and it was well worth the risk for me.
I’m not a risk taker but I believe in the universe. I broke my ankle in July and my work said I had to be off till October when I was cleared. I had no income. Talked to my husband and I quit my job in August. I retired and took my Social Security. Love retirement!
I quit my long time job int he medical field and offered to be an event cordinator for Novel Grounds Romance Bookstore. I was hired on the spot and have never been happier.
Trying a new genre of books. I’m really enjoying branching out.
Leaving my first husband. Best decision I ever made. Since then I have remarried to an amazing man.
Moving
I’m not a risk taker but 27yrs ago I was in a bad marriage, and we had a friend of a friend who started to come around. He was great slowly I started to have feelings for him I tried setting him up with friends but it didn’t work. I just got jealous. One night my ex now beat me I ended up in the hospital, so I left him! I was scared but I decided that was as close to death do us part I was willing to get. I went on a 1st date Valentine’s Day with that friend moved in with him the next day and married him a year later best decision of my life!!!
Don’t really have a risk that I took that paid off but thanks for the contest.
Packing up my life and everything I knew, then moved to another state, changing jobs. Changing careers really. It was a gamble but I’m hoping still worth it.
A few years ago, I resigned from my job because I didn’t feel valued and I wasn’t being paid enough. When they realized things wouldn’t run smoothly without me, they asked me to stay and offered me a higher salary. Ever since, they’ve been showing every day that they appreciate me and the work I do.
My biggest risk was pursuing my now husband. He didn’t want to date because we worked together and sat right beside each other every work day. I finally convinced him and now we’ve been married 22 years. Best risk ever!
Changing professions without any preparation.
Might sound silly to some and not necessarily ‘big’ but two and half years ago I had a massive surgery on my shoulder, left me unable to work or really leave the house for months. Then last year I started filling in job applications no where was getting back to me, so I filled in one for a tiny shop in my town and it paid off as I just celebrated my first year there!
In my 20’s I took a risk to go oversees for a job in a country I didn’t speak the language. I was alone & found a roommate and that decision changed my life. It made me grow in ways I never realized I needed to at the time. I became more independent, confident and self sufficient. Found out my boyfriend of 7 years was cheating on me the whole time (as he gaslighted me and accused me of cheating)! I promptly dumped him when I found out and despite the betrayal, became the strongest version of myself upon returning home. Got a new job where I was reunited with a high school boyfriend and a date led to more & now 25 years later we have 2 sons and I have no regrets!
Saying yes 46 years ago. Marriage is risky, but so worth it
When I earned my Project Management certification I went to “contract” work. Less risky as hubby carried insurance, but paid big dividends ultimately.
Biggest risk was building my home. I went from renting to homeownership in 6 months 30 years ago. It was a struggle, but I did it. It took a few years to get everything inside finished, but it happened gradually.
Deciding i could have a baby after all
Taking a risk in meeting someone when i was a mom of 1 and pregnant with another. We became friends and he helped me alot and then lovers. We’ve been married for going on 25 years now and he is the best thing in our lives.
Taking charge of my health and asking for second opinions instead of just following the first doctors opinion it paid off because they found out other health issues that I have and now on the right track to stabilize my health
Taking charge of my health and asking for second opinions instead of just following the first doctors opinion it paid off because they found out other health issues that I have and now on the right track to stabilize my health and on the right medication
Moving home for a new career. Love it! This was worth the risk!
I haven’t taken the risk yet but am in the works to. I, too, am a planner. I’m getting my ducks in a row to start an online small business. It should launch in 1Q 2026 if steps go as planned. I’m scared but excited. Send good juju!
At 18, left my hometown and went off on my own. My mom said I couldn’t do it, so I did. Best decision, I wouldn’t be me or where I’m at without making that decision.
Leaving my now ex husband
My biggest risk was moving to a town where I didn’t know anyone. I accepted a teaching position fresh out of college in a town that I didn’t know anything about. It worked out great. I taught in the same district for 38 years, made life long friends, met my husband and raised a wonderful son.
Biggest risk comes with a fun, two part story that I swear, one day, will make it into a book. Bear with me and the risk is explained at the end…. Part one starts out my sophomore year of high school. I had a freshly minted drivers license and was leaving school. I’m stopped dead at the stoplight to turn left leaving campus when I get sideswiped. Basically, there was a guy in a truck at a stop sign almost directly to my right that rolled said stop sign and collided with a vehicle in the straight through lane, which then pushed that vehicle into me. Cute, but mouthy guy hops out and freaks out because of all the damage. I give him the death glare and he steers clear of me. Heard some rumors around school that he said I caused the accident. Loved telling people that the police report says otherwise and left it at that.
So, there I was, my senior year of high school…I’d been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. I was a year older than him and I was in the decision making process for college. Closest school I was looking at was 3 hours away. NBD. Then one night in December, I get a late night phone call from my boyfriend. Except it’s not him, it’s a woman. And she’s telling me about being *with* my boyfriend (I was still carrying my v card), all the ways I’m lacking as a person, and I can hear my boyfriend and several others laughing in the background. Obviously I dropped him like a hot potato. A few days later, I stop to get gas and go inside to pay with cash and there behind the register sits the guy from the car accident. For whatever reason, we start chatting (super small town, not busy, we’ve all got time 😂). Eventually he peels the story out me (because small town, he already knows the basics) and proceeds to tell me how much he’s always hated my ex. We then hatch a fake dating revenge plan. I told him it’s only fake and I had no plans to date anyone until I was away at college. Plan worked like a charm…and he charmed his way into my life. I skip all the far away schools and stay local, he becomes a Marine, we get married and here we are today….18 years post fake dating scheme. I risked my heart, education, and my thoughts of living in my hometown forever after college on a guy I couldn’t initially stand that makes me move every three years all over the country. Best life ever.
Do think I have taken any big risks, which is kind of sad. I am 55 years old, so maybe I still have time
The biggest risk I have taken hasn’t been taken yet but I’m steps away. I am writing a book and my plans are to self publish it in the new year. So the biggest risk I’m taking is on myself.
The biggest risk I’ve taken to date is buying a house to flip.
Took a chance on an interview after being recommended by a friend.. I had been away from that industry for over a decade. I got the job, it was at the perfect time and I’m so thankful!
I don’t think I have ever really taken any important risks that have paid off
To be honest I haven’t taken any big risks recently. At least not in the last two years. Two years ago I took the risk to be my sister’s aid an so far it’s great. Get to see my nephew more.
Taking the chance on becoming a mom.. my greatest joy now
Retiring at age 55. Best c decision ever.
Meeting a guy I met on a dating site. We are going on 5 years now!
Biggest risk was believing in myself and know I would be better in the future.
I got a job as a service advisor at a dealership for extra money for myself. And become not as dependent on my ex husband’s and our business. (He spent I could not.) Became highest paid service advisor the 3 yrs I was there.
It was scary to leave a 23 yr relationship/marriage. Our own business where I ran the business for 16 yrs and he did the jobs.
Went on family wkend vacation, ex was overly obnoxious and verbally abusive in front of other people and our children. Things you don’t say to or in front of your children. I was broken the Sunday night we got home. I KNEW I WAS DONE.
Monday morning took my 11 & 7 yr old daughters to school and told them mommy wasn’t coming home tonight. I was going to stay at Nana’s. And will bring them to live with me Friday afternoon after school. AND I DID JUST THAT..
Next risk was leaving my job at the dealership to take care of my mother with stage 4 breast cancer that had already moved to her brain and bones before discovered. She was given 4-6 months. It was so far advanced she was bedridden could only move her arms. When she left the hospital. We brought her home and 1 sister, my 15 yr old and myself were here care takers. She ended up living one yr and two days.. Quitting that job was hard 100,000. a yr. But to me the time that I spent caring and running the household was worth more than any amount of money. I would never get them 367 days again.
The risk was money over time and the time WAS EVERYTHING. And I would live and do it all the same again.
Moving to a new state with my husband. Many new adventures!
As I mentioned the other day, I got married to my high school sweetheart at 19. We left New York and moved to Louisiana when he was stationed at Barksdale Air Force Base. After 6 years of marriage (and a 2-year-old son), he walked in one day demanding a divorce, so we did. 3 months after our divorce was final, he married the person he had been cheating on me with. For the next 3 years she proceeded to make my life a living hell, talking my ex into constantly threatening me for full custody, just everything you can think of to harass me, belittle me, it was a nightmare. My next-door neighbor who was getting ready to move to Las Vegas said one day, “you should just come with us to Vegas and start over.” So, I did. I immediately made all the plans, secured a job in Vegas, and towed a U-Haul trailer behind my truck to Vegas. I rented a room in my neighbor’s new house until I had saved enough to get my own apartment. 28 years later, I’ve been married to my wonderful hubby for 25 years, had a long career in purchasing in the casinos and am now happily retired. If I hadn’t taken that leap to get out of the nightmare I was living in, I don’t know what would have happened to me. Probably would have gone back to New York but that felt like admitting failure and I wasn’t the one who had failed, you know?
Haven’t taken any risks
I think ending a 18 year relationship with no intimate contact or connection would be my big risk. ai was quite comfortable and compliant. We loved in separate homes, travelled to wonderful places, but always separate bedrooms. I’d convinced myself it was ok.ugh
Leaving my last job. I had multiple interviews from different places but nothing set yet. I was very unhappy with the environment though and knew I was going to end up snapping at someone so it was better to leave on good terms than be fired. Turned in my 2 weeks without a job lined up. On my last day there, I was offered my current job and absolutely love it.
The biggest risk I took was marrying my husband after dating for 7 months. We’re coming up on our 3 year anniversary and I’ve never been happier.
Not that I’m not a risk taker or not taken any risks but, I can’t think of any that have paid off yet.
I would have to say becoming a STAHM and going back to college to further my education!
Getting a house at a young age with kids and my husband but at that time boyfriend had lost his job. We definitely survived but it was scary for us.
I’m not a risk taker.
I took a huge risk by moving to CT for a job. It was a totally different environment that I have lived in before. The people, food, lifestyle and community is completely foreign to me. It definitely paid off. I am making more money than I ever thought I’d be capable of at my age. My life is more comfortable and relaxed than ever before. I don’t see this as my final destination but the risk I took was major and it defintely paid off. I am so glad that I had the courage to do it and if I had a chance to do things over, I would make the same decision.
Stood up for myself! I don’t like confrontation so it was tough for me!
I am not a huge risk taker, I want to take more. The biggest one is buying the house and the car, so far it has paid off. My younger self is an ass, but she did take some risks that put in the career path I am on now and it paid off. But honestly I feel like I am stuck in a rut and really need a change, just looking for the “right” path to take that risk on.
I left an easy job to apply at a large corporation & it paid off!!!
Probably in 2002 when I traveled to the States to live with a complete unknown family to me, for a year. (As an au pair). I made new friends, honorary family (a place to stay, lol), and learned to not be afraid to travel to the other side of the world by myself.
Changing jobs, I was so nervous to leave where I was comfortable. I took a risk that I was so scared to do and it paid off!
I bought a house as a single mom.
I can’t think of any risk I have taken except following my husband to a new job and moving the family to Florida. I wanted to stay close to family and never move but his dream was to live in Florida so 10 years ago we moved and now I get to work from home doing the same job I lived in Tennessee and I feel like my kids have prospered from the move even though we all miss our Family a lot..
Boring answer but I took a lot of stupid risks when I was younger so I’m more cautious now.
I also take lots of risks, I am strategic about how I go about it. The one time I was spontaneous about it it failed miserably and I lost $100. Which isn’t a lot of money, but when you are a cheapskate like me it was the impetus for me to make other changes, lol
We took a risk and moved our family while our kids were in HS and MS for a new job for my husband. This paid off as both our kids got better educations and found their passions. Both kids are happy and successful. The job has also allowed us to look at early retirement.
When I graduated from college I only applied to one job, to serve as a missionary. I was accepted and although it was one of the hardest years of my life, it was the biggest year of growth and world understanding.
After growing up in a home of constant domestic violence for 19 years I left the only home I’d ever known with nothing, gave back my college scholarship and moved in with my boyfriend of just three months. I never forgot the family members who tried to tell me what a mistake I was making and the education I was giving up. That boyfriend and I have been married for 35 years while I earned four college degrees.
Would love to read, all the books look really really good and can relate to some. Would really love to read! And thank you, good luck everyone
moving to the countryside, away from the city to a place i knew nobody other then my boyfriend.
Changing jobs. It wasn’t good for my mental health. Now I work in a place I love and can travel.
I switched jobs completely. Different city, different area of work. Have been there 4 years now.
I am not much of a risk taker but I married a man who smoked and was a farmer/mechanic 40 years ago and we are still going strong.
Moving out of my home province into another one
I don’t really take risks. I’m a very safe gal
I posted a friend request in a group looking for people to talk to. I responded to a shady profile with no images, and no real info. And that guy who lives on the other side of the world has become my best friend. We talk all the time, about everything. He supports my power lifting and is a lifter himself. He developed a plan to get me pushing hard and moving forward. He always lifts me up and I’m so glad he came into my life.
I am not a risk taker. But, I did change careers recently and it has been awesome.
Not really a risk, but I kept my passport valid and it led to a surprise trip to Italy!
Sold everything, packed a bag and started driving. Single mom 2 kids under 5. I started completely over. Ended up 5 states away and now have a beautiful life!
If I’m being honest I don’t think there has been one yet, not really.. But, I am about to commit to something crazy and wild and I KNOW it will be a great thing for me. I cannot wait to start my life. 🤗
moving across the country
Not much of a risk taker but I satisfied with the decisions I’ve made over the years.
Thank you for the chance and happy holidays!!
I took a job that was new and different and if really paid off. Made good money and good friends.
Switching jobs for sure
Not much of a risk taker, but I would say at 18 I married and went off to Turkey where he was stationed. Only there a month before moving to Germany, then many places after that. Thank you for the chance!
One of the most recent ones is going back to school for my associates. It was so scary and my anxiety crippled me for so long, but I finally was able to go back and do it.
Getting married to my husband 😀😂🤣😆
Quitting my job and being a sahm ♥️♥️ best decision we ever made
Taking the leap and new job opportunity moving from Delaware to Massachusetts.
The biggest risk I took was going part time and staying home as much as I can with my kids. I wouldn’t trade being able to be there for them for anything.
Two risks really. First I worked in the private sector for almost 15 years. Then I went to work for the state started over in my career. Started out far away and came closer. But then I changed from one department to another for many reasons but, started over again. This decision was one of my best. I felt productive and felt like I helped people. I just retired 2 years ago. Thank you for the opportunity.
Saying yes to the shirtless guy who answered the door of a shared house. 31 years and counting!
Wow sadly I don’t think I took any risks that paid off. I have that if I did not have bad luck I wouldn’t have any. Lol. I am thankful for my 3 son’s but they were not a risk.
When I started selling items online. I had only sold items locally and on FB. Shipping items felt like a risk to me, but I have gotten rid of more items by doing so!
Changing jobs. I went from a salaried position to an hourly Union position and it was the best decision I ever made.
1. Having the courage to out my abusers
2. Getting a divorce from the first husband that led to reuniting with my soulmate 27 years now and still going and still friends with the ex so yeah it paid off.
Although I am now living back in the US which wasn’t in the original plan….. I cashed out my 401k and moved my family to England… my husband is a citizen. My children had AMAZING educational and social opportunities. As much heartache as it’s brought it also brought great joy…. I wouldn’t change a thing…
I am not a risk taker so that is a hard question.
I Don’t really have a risk that I took that paid off 🎅🎄🎁Thank you for the chance🎄🤶 Happy Holiday to you and Merry Christmas🎅🎁
Changing my career!
The biggest risk I took I think has to be be buying my house, I was in competition with another buyer but in the end I won out as they had to sell their property and I was in a rental. I also took a risk because the owners were after a lot more money than what I offered. I think it came down to them needing to move and no other offers they agreed to my offer, which was a huge relief! Especially as I was determined this was the one! 😅
Left a decent paint job, to move Scorpius country with the hopes of getting a better job, but not having it lined up yet, it paid off beautifully.
I left my job at a daycare center, to open a home daycare. I enjoyed doing that for a bout ten years before moving out of state.
I should add, that I left a job with a secure income to become my own boss without any ‘clients’ lined up yet. lol Luckily, a family whose children had gone to the center I had worked at, heard I was starting my own and brought their two children, and then an old neighbor brought her son… so I had that income coming in pretty quickly after I started. (Even if it was less than I was making before.)
Changing jobs.
Moving to KC where I didn’t know anyone. I was offered a manager position here at my current job, but I needed to get away from everyone. Especially family. It was the best thing I ever did.
Not a big risk taker and this last year has been filled with bad luck but everyone is healthy and my oldest is getting married in July so that is something to look forward to
Leaving a job for a better job and a higher position. Turned out great. Retired from there 3 years ago after almost 22 years
Moving from a house and city I was born and raised in at 55 to the suburbs. Best thing I’ve done. Loved reading your encouraging messsage. I need to figure out something I want and go for it. I’m stuck now
Not one that paid off. Many risks, survived them all, result is, still here risks are much less intense these days but still in evidence
I think one of the big risk I took was going for my PhD. I may not have been successful in completing the program it got to be too much and knowing what my limitations were at that time in my life was huge because I usually don’t know when to quit pushing myself but this program showed me that there is at point to when you have to say enough and step back for your own mental health. But I can say that I fulfilled my masters so that was another huge risk I took and I’m proud of it.
The biggest risk I took was moving to a new city. I left my hometown after living there my whole life, and I feel blessed everyday. Some sort of miracle happens almost daily.
Refinancing my house from a 30yr to a fifteen yr morgage. I doubled up pmnts and paid off in 12 and have not had to pay a house pmnt now for 6 yrs. So glad i did that
The only things h I can think of is thrust night I met my husband. I had been in a mentally abusive relationship for 5 yrs and when I met my future husband and he asked me out I said yes. Broke up with my bf and never looked back. Dodged a bullet with my ex
Kicking my now ex out and making it on my own…..
This is exactly what I needed to hear today, that you have to step up and go for it – thank you! One big risk I took was when I decided I just couldn’t stay in my dead end job I hated, and expect anything to change, so without anything else lined up and no savings I quit and went freelance, and I ended up working in my dream industry ( until I felt like I had achieved that dream, ‘what’s next?’ So now, currently, I am on that brink once more, of taking a big risk! Hence, I needed that reminder today)
I broke up with my ex and started dating my now husband. Together for over 20 years.
Leaving my old job to begin something new and challenging.
i dont really know if its actually considered a “risk” , but deciding to go to long term treatment!
I will be 3 years sober in April! 😁
Risk I took that paid off? Throwing my resume out there after working at a back stabbing job for 16 years. Now, work geographically in a different location than my headquarters. Trusted and listened to. Love it.
A risk I took that paid off was I retired early and it was scary in the being not sure if I made the right decision. To this day, it has been the best decision and the risk was worth it!!
Made a big move a year ago . Left my small home town for a fresh start. Still a work in progress but happy with my progress and new adventure
Changing jobs
At a young age I was asulted really bad becasue of the damage done to my insides I was told I wouldn’t be able to carry a pregnancy and could be life threatening to me .
When I feel pregnant at 19 I decided I wanted to keep my baby knowing my risks . Now have 7 children all healthy and clearly I’m still here too
I think my biggest risk was dropping out of college to become a realtor. I was a single mom of 3 at the time. I worked full time went to school full time and juggled my kids school and sports schedules. That saying “Burning the candles at both ends” was the story of my life.
I had a friend that was a custom builder. I hadn’t seen in years. I ran into him one of my kids football games. We talked for a couple months back and forth and he suggested I get my real estate license. I laughed thinking no way. I had a year left in school and I would have my masters.
A few more months went by and I finally bit the bullet and quit school and started classes to get my brokers license.
26 years later it has paid off 10 fold.
Not a big risk taker usually but I have some decisions to make in the upcoming year so now might be the time for one
I am not a big risk taker, but I did quit my job, sell my house and move 4 states away from my family and friends. My family thought we were crazy, but here we are 24 years later, happy we made the move and not eager to move back. We have even had multiple family members move near us!
The biggest risk I’ve taken is my job! My manager retired this time last year, and I have now taken over fully as manager of the department! I love it!
In my early employment status the risk I took was leaving one job to go to another that wasn’t as stable but turned out to be the best decision I made.
I wish I had something exciting to say but the older I get the less risks I take with everything in life. The last large risk I took was a business I bought and sold 5 years later, just months before the pandemic. Thankfully I was able to sell it, not for a huge profit but enough to pay things off and not be so stressed.
Switched carriers mid schooling. I’m now coding and insurance for a cancer center and enjoy helping my patients with getting grants /fundd/ free drug as needed
Not sure I’d call it a risk, per se, but making the very strict decision to not allow my oldests bio pop to be involved in her life. (which was a cinch once I made it clear that he wouldn’t be walking in/out of her life and we’d be doing the whole court/child support thing) Although I struggled financially, I believe that that was one of the greatest gifts I’ve given her. (he was a dirtbag pos who has god only knows how many kids he has running around)
I felt like leaving my 1st husband was a little risky too. The first day I was gone, I remember feeling so much peace though, being in my own space with my kids. It felt safe and comfortable for the first time in some time.
– Marie
Easily my husband met in high school and been together for 36 years best decision ever
Moving to Oklahoma and in with my boyfriend when I was 19 (we had only known each other a couple months) It was a big risk- my family and friends didn’t approve. We were together until he passed away unexpectedly 7 yrs later.
The biggest risk for me was moving from my hometown to another city. I lived there for two years, before moving back to be closer to my family after a health issue.
I am definitely not a risk taker, but I sure wish I was! There are a few things that I would like to do but I’m just too afraid. 😩
Hi! Well I’m getting up there in years….not old but looking that way and I’ve taken quite a few risks and some really paid off! One big one was saying yes to my now husband. Yes he’s been my answer before but it bares repeating. I didn’t think I’d ever get married,some in my family didn’t have great track records,including my parents. I’ve done it and done it well for over 30 years! Yay! It’s not for everyone but it sure has been for me! Thanks again for the opportunity! Merry loving your way! 😍🥰😘!
I moved to a foreign country 16 years ago.
I’m not much of a risk taker so I don’t have a good answer for this one. I wish I did.
Getting on match.com 22 years ago….but I met my husband and we’ve been married 20 1/2 years and have 2 awesome kids.
travel alone
I left a secure career to become a travel writer and never looked back!
Divorced my first husband and bought him out of the house, going nearly broke in the process. I’m now married for 26 years to a wonderful man I will spend the rest of my life with IN THAT HOUSE.
In my 40’s I quit my safe bank job to take a job that was mostly commission. I made a lot more money!!
Btw Julie, I lived in family student housing at csu too!
I’m not a risk taker. I have the Kaos gene where bad luck follows my family. 🥴
I went back to school in 2018, after my daughter got old enough that I wasnt needed as much. I was depressed and hubby worked out of town. Sooo back to school and became an IV nurse/Phlebotomist. Got a job starting as an IV nurse and now I run the Lab in a specialty clinic. Its been great and I love my job so much. My patients are amazing and always come back to me.
Asking for a raise! Probably not a risk though.
Reapplying to medical school after my first rejection. I got accepted. Applying for a Navy scholarship. I came out of my residency and Navy obligation debt free. Now retired but had a great 30 year career in anesthesia
I was a real risk taker when I was in my younger. Went parachuting, scuba dived with baby sharks, toured Europe with buses and stayed with nuns. Met my 9 years younger husband and got married. We’ve been married for 24 years now.
I took a chance on a job working with rats and mice that paid off for over 20 years. I was a vet tech and working with dogs and cats, then large animals at the NCSU vet school and it all led to a chance at the EPA..wow, what a ride, I have so much respect for all the small and large animals in this wide world of ours!
my other was marrying my husband 36 years ago after only knowing him for a year and a half..!
Thinking I had an apartment and stopped looking. I ended up getting a better apartment through someone I know
I have up the security of living in a place in the place i grew up and moved 800 mile away. It led to a career at a company for 36 years, then to my daughter also getting a job at the same company. She recieved an international work assignment and now we travel all over meeting up in different counties.
I am not much of a risk taker so do not really have an answer. If I had to say one thing it would be marrying my hubby after only knowing for for 30 days. We have definitely had our ups and downs. Our 30th anniversary is this month. We have two great grown kids and 1st grandbaby on the way. I guess taking the risk of going off to Las Vegas to get married paid off.
Spontaneously moving clear across the country with my best friend when I was newly graduated from high school. Lots of things, both good and bad, have come from that risky move, but I cannot regret any of them. <3
Opening up and letting my fiance into mine and my older daughter’s lives. I was burned bad by her father, and was jaded when it came to relationships. I didn’t see the point on putting myself out there again. But, he broke down my walls. I risked both more and my daughter’s hearts. We are both happier and thriving better than before I met him.
After being with someone for 12 years always knowing he was the one. Then he broke up with me out of the blue and found out months later it’s because he hooked up with his secretary. After over a year of despising men I took a chance with a friend of a friend. We dated for nine years as we decided to get a house instead of a wedding, and have been married for 20 years and have never once had a fight. I guess I just had to wait for the right one.
Well it was 15 yrs ago but I moved to New York with my bf that I had only been dating for 6 months. 15 yrs later we have been married for 14yrs, have 2 little ppl, moved 7 times for my hubs job (seen so many places that I probably wouldn’t have), now we are back in the Midwest close to family & enjoying life.
I agreed to getting married to my current husband after knowing him for just two weeks and other than a narcissistic mother in law it had been pretty good.
Quitting my job, I wouldn’t be where I am today if I had stayed.
Giving my number to a guy at a bar. That was 18 years ago and we are still in love and married for 13 years. He is my best friend
I like to travel alone.
Moved across the country and married the guy I met on the internet. We’ve been together 24 years
Working for the Texas department of corrections. It will test your sanity. Now I am retired and getting a paycheck. It was worth 25 years of my life.
2012 we had an electrical fire in our home, luckily we were home and my husband acted fast while on the phone with 911 he had a fire extinguisher fighting the fire… took 3 months for my kitchen to be replaced and walls to be built.. stayed with friends, when we moved back into the house I was always uneasy the house was old, just didn’t trust another fire wouldn’t happen… my in laws had moved from Maine to Arizona a few years before… in January 2013 we went to visit 70 degrees in January… we went back to Maine to a 4 day snowstorm, and a house that was built in 1921 that I was afraid of… in April 2013 I gave my notice at my job, my husband did the same, we packed up left for Arizona… Best decision we ever made, was pretty much an impulsive move on our part as we rolled into Az with $50 in our bank account!! We’ve built a beautiful life since moving here!
I think it was deciding to divorce my husband and raise my 3 children on my own. Although, 1 is with Jesus now, they turned out incredible and I’m so glad I walked away when I did. I’m so proud 38 years later to look at their lives.
Being a stay-at-home mom instead of going to college, going in the service or getting a career
Now that my kids are older though I need to do something
I moved into a guys house who I barely knew to escape my parents. 10 years later were married and have 3 beautiful kids together 🥰
Signing up with a dating service and agreeing to getting a call from a certain guy whose been my husband for 33 years now.
Answering a survey that my sister told me about, I answered it and won a grand, I was able to get a new laptop, get Christmas taken care of for my family and get myself a new bed.
When I went back to college for my masters degree in math. I’m now a very successful math teacher at a private school and I truly love my job!
This giveaway Looks soo Absolutely Luxurious and and Woman would Love to receive it. Thankyou for the entry. 🥰🎄💐
I relocated to a new town with a small pay raise, been here 30 years and love it
I quit my job of over 10 years
Moving to a new state 12 years ago. Best decision I’ve ever made.
It might not seem huge but moving from one side of the state to the other made a massive difference, for the better, in my life 🙂
Tell my boyfriend that I understand that he didnt want kids but I fully intended on becoming a mother in the future because it has always been a goal of mine. We have now been together for 21 years and have an amazing 10 year old and he is the absolutebest dad ever.
I am not a risk taker, so this is a hard one but if I had to think of something, I would say that buying a house was a huge risk for me, as I am a single parent and had only one income to rely on.
Having a massive career change later in life was a big risk for me. It required balancing full-time training with work and life. It was tough but I succeeded!
I kissed a sweet boy when I was seven and then became best friends with another boy around the same time we have now been in each others lives since then so for over 30 yrs I married one and see the other every single day. Every friend ship I have no has been because I took a risk
I went casual at my job in order to do travel work to pay for my kids schooling and be debt free. I was able to do this for like 2 years off and on and still have my regular job to go back to without losing any seniority. Traveling also put me in a position to only have to be part time and not full time!!
My risk that paid off for me was joining the military. I was in foster care and took my parents to court to sign off for me. It helped me go to school and buy a house. Absolutely worth it and some of the best people I know I am still in contact with.
Getting married a second time. Now I have a wonderful husband and kids that are there for me. They help me so much with my MS diagnosis. I love them so much..
I left a job that I had been at for 13 years. Change is hard but it was totally worth it
I’m not much of a risk taker. Recently we risked our peaceful home when we got a new kitten when our other cat is 3 years old now. It took a few weeks but now they are being more playful with each other
Getting out of my marriage and having the courage to know when to leave. I have come far and made a successful career and raised some amazing kids.
Finishing up my degree and becoming a teacher at 38 years old…
I started my career in my 20s working for a very small company of like 5 employees making very little money. I worked there for about 4 years, but needed a better paying job with benefits. So I applied for a job, in the same field, at a much larger company that employed 100s (now 1000s) and was hired making over double the pay. That was a huge step for me back then and starting a new job at such a large company was scary. Now, 13 years later, I’m still with the same company making more than 4x as much as I did at my original job and I get the added benefit of working from home. So I think that risk paid off.
asked a man out for coffee
Having my oldest daughter at 15 and staying with my now husband hoping everything would worked out. It definitely paid off. I have 4 beautiful children and we’ve been together for 30yrs and are still super happy. More happy than we were back then actually. I would say that was one of my biggest risks.
I haven’t really taken risks that paid off positively..I took a risk with my health , I nearly died ..Obviously I am alive so I suppose that is seen as positive,but I am paying for the consequences for it…So I don’t really have a good answer to this question.
Thankyou so much for the chance.
My biggest risk was getting on a bus from PA to Iowa when my friend who had moved there told me that if I wanted to get away from drugs to move there. He’s still like a brother to me and still keep in touch. The risk paid off!
Much like yourself, I am a risk planner. I take risks but plan for them. One of the biggest risks I took in my life was when I was a teenager. Actually, most of the risks in my life I took when I was a teenager. With this specific one, I decided to take the risk and speak out against my father (and his parents/my grandparents by extension) for his domestic abuse to my sister and I. I knew the consequences and that there was a chance that he’d kill us (he was the kind of man to retaliate), but I had to do what was best for my sister. I knew my family would take his side and that I’d be in my own, but the reward was worth the risk. In high school, I took all honors and AP classes. I’d sacrifice sleep to study and take notes. Sometimes I wouldn’t go to sleep. But it paid off because I am where I always wanted to be.
Taking my current job that I absolutely wasn’t qualified for. They trained me and I’ve been there 18 1/2 years and met one of my dearest friends there.
Getting married at 18 was a risk I took, especially back in the late 70s, when times were changing rapidly, regarding marriage, traditional women’s roles–feminism was in full gear.
Still married, happy, after 47 years.
I’m sad to say that I can’t really think of any risks I’ve taken. I guess the closest thing might be agreeing to fly to England by myself to meet a woman I’d only talked with through emails years ago because she invited me to an album release party. She paid for the flight and I trusted her, but other family members weren’t so sure. But honestly, going to England (as I’m from the US) had been a dream of mine for a long time. I couldn’t pass up the opportunity. It was scary, as I’d never been out of the country before, but I don’t regret it.
The biggest risk I ever took was having to face surgery to cure my cancer then had to suffer through chemo and radiation to take out the other two cancers I got stuck with and after a year in hospital I was finally released and guess what……18 years I’m still here ..
I haven’t been much of a risk taker so far in my life, but as I transition into retirement I’m looking forward to taking a few risks. Travel to places I have on my bucket list.
Quitting our teaching jobs and moving to New York City to work for the National Parks there. (It was a lot more money than we were making while teaching in Arizona. We lived on the National Parks there and our rent there was cheaper than our mortgage in AZ) We were able to do a lot of traveling while there and the expenses were less because of the piers, trains, airports were all right there.
My biggest risk was marrying my pen pal of two years nine days after meeting him face to face. We just seemed to mesh perfectly from the get go and we’ve never looked back. Next month, we’ll be married 29 years and celebrating with our daughter! The only other risk I can think of was quitting a job when we were really strapped and had no savings. I was so miserable that going to that job felt like my soul was being punished for some great evil. Thankfully, I found a job in pediatrics, which I had never worked in but soon excelled at. I learned everything I could about front desk, insurance verification and billing in order to do the best job to help my doctors and patients. I was able to help them with my prior medical experience and empathize with them whether they were the patient, caretaker or struggling financially and they appreciate that so much. One of my bosses told me that they were so glad they found me. It really touched my heart as no one had appreciated me like that before. They helped us through tough times and helped us find an apartment when we became homeless. It may not have been my dream job but it has been a blessing none the less and one that I’m very grateful for.
I’m not a risk taker lol. I would say when I quit my job and become a stay at home mom. It was something I never had a desire to do but got to spend quailty time with my kids during their pre-teen and teen years
Moving up north in 2019 instead of staying with my staffing job. Ended up being there for my kid during COVID shutdown and able to take FMLA to take care of my dad and keep him home when he was diagnosed with cancer.
My divorce. It was a necessary risk, but a big one. I now have my perfect partner and a much more fulfilled life.
Moving from the city to the country. So much more relaxing and when driving I can get somewhere in just about the same amount of time without to much traffic. Love it!
When my husband, lost his way I stayed and am the happiest I have ever been with him. Life takes heartbreaking turns, but if you take the chance they have changed and they do….. it is amazing.
I’m quite a pussy when it comes to risks. I’ve never taken a big risk. Or that I remember. With my TBI I have blank spots in my memory, but I don’t think I took any. Rather boring.
The biggest risk I ever took was choosing to keep my heart open after some really hard things, and to build the life I wanted instead of chasing someone else’s version of success. It felt terrifying at the time… but it’s paid off in love, in family, connection, and the beautiful messy wonderful life I have today.
When I was 20 years old, I applied for a job in a law firm, and I had only worked retail. I had a great interview and ended up getting the job. It was a great step-up from working in a meat department at Meijer. I worked there for 8 years until the economy tanked in 2008 and they had to pretty much close up shop. But I stayed in the legal field until I had brain surgery in 2014.
Moving my family in with my mom. I was able to care for her and both my grandparents and uncle till they all passed. This allowed my girls the rare opportunity to grow up surrounded by multiple generations of their family and truly get to know them and stories of their pasts. Something which is mostly unheard of in most of the USA now. Plus they learned to take care of respect and understand the elderly. As for me I got to return the pleasure of caring for my family as the cared for me when I was little
Moving across the country and starting life over away from family & lifelong friends.
I am not a risk taker, definitely a planner, so after being fired from a job( also a first) rather than taking the first position offered to me, I held out for the job I currently have. I was unemployed for seven long months, living on credit cards and getting desperate. I had nine interviews for this job, but I needed money coming in and had an offer for a job I knew I’d be unhappy working. So I held out another month and was rewarded with one of the best jobs I’ve ever had. It has afforded me the opportunity to travel, completely renovate my home and to put a third of my salary into my retirement.
Laying it all out and fully trusting someone and then marrying him.
Moved out of state, not sure if it paid off yet.
Being let go from a big company 3 years ago, and finding a job working for a small business.
I’m not a huge risk taker so nothing really comes to mind. I think the biggest risk I take is standing up for the people at work when something isn’t fair.
I’ve taken many risks in my life. The last one was to become a minimalist, get rid of everything that no longer served me, sell my house, and do van life until we found a place that aligned with us. We traveled in a homemade camper van and arrived in a small coastal town off Highway 101 in Oregon. We fell in love with it, and everything flowed perfectly. We were able to stay, and we’re still here, loving the coastal life. We knew if we were to stay in our house, which was paid for outright, in a state and town that made us fucking miserable because of the weather, because of the asshole people, the whole fucking environment, the whole icky vibe, we knew if we were to stay, we would live the same damn life year after year. It would kill us. Literally. So, we risked our security for a life that aligns with our authentic selves, and it paid off in ways that we never imagined.
Sold my house of 35 years, rented an apartment for 1 year, then moved into my (current) new home! Building a new life in a new community!
I think the biggest risk I have taken was spend less time with certain family members and focusing more on my mental health and on my immediate family. Since I have done that, my mental health has improved and I’m happier.
A risk that I took would be getting married and moving away from my family. I work for an awesome company and have a few good friends.
Well, it’s probably pretty lame, but I am not a risk taker, at all. I have to think everything through first.
Meeting my recently deceased husband 20 years ago in a hotel room for the first time.
In Nov, the company i work for sold and dissolved. I had a choice to go with new co. That would have been the safe option, no job searching, no resume prep, no interviewing, I saw way too many red flags with new co. So, I decided to take a leap of faith! I didn’t accept their offer. After working same place for 14 years, its time for a change. Decided i can be real picky on places submit my resume to. First job interviewed with, offer! I’m start new job after the new year. I’m excited for the new!
Does jumping in the ocean to dive with sharks count?
My big risk that I took was to move to a new country. It’s been 20 years since I’ve lived in the US and it was worth it
I am not a risk taker at all but would like to be. Im too scared for change. I would like to put it out into the universe that I want to try a big risk and change careers after 22 years. Julie you are inspiring and I love the insight you give us into your life.
I don’t take risks
Thanks for chance!
A risk I took that Pais off was walking into the bar that night I met my husband and forever changed my life I’d love to win
I am an overthinker and never take risks. I wish I had the courage to.
I quit my job (losing my pension, senority, benefits and security), got rid of my place and most of my posessions, left my family and friends, packed up my cat and my car and moved halfway across Canada. Just a place to stay and my savings to rely on.
I live in one of the most beautiful places in the world. I landed (mostly) on my feet,
Was it crazy and reckless- YES!
Would I do it all over again- YES, but only with the same timing. If I had to do it now (2025), I wouldn’t be able to.
Last year, I made the difficult decision to resign from my job of four years to prioritize my physical and mental health. During my gap year, I gained perspective on what I wanted to do with my life. I have finally decided to apply to college to pursue a career as an ophthalmologist assistant. I also took a brave step by learning how to drive, which has been the most challenging experience for me since my anxiety diagnosis. I’m very excited and a little scared, and with God’s help, I have faith in the future that lies ahead.
My shy 11 year old self accepting a girl’s request to be friends. 30 years later, no regrets. Sisters for life.
Leaving my ex. He was so abusive it’s not even funny. He had me so messed up in the head. And you are absolutely right. Yes that huge risk paid off big time. Now I have a beautiful little girl that is always so sweet and happy she lights up everyone’s day that she comes across. I’d go through it all again for her. Don’t hesitate, leap and run your ass access that bridge!!
I moved to Vegas, moved back to Iowa, then moved back to Vegas by myself for work and I’ve now lived here over 20 yrs.
I bought a second house in Serra Vista to move from my other in Wisconsin.
Becoming a kinkster and part of the local scene was, and still is a big risk for me, my parents would be horrified if they knew.
I can’t think of anything eeppp 🖤✨️🥀🎄
I left a job I wasn’t happy in to look for a new job. During my “hiatus”, I went with a friend to a remote broadcast at BV Winery by a local radio station. While there, I won an audition spot for Wheel of Fortune because they were coming to town. Being on Wheel of Fortune was a bucket list item I didn’t think I’d ever achieve since they get so many requests to be on the show. Well, I made it on the show and ended up winning money and a new car!
I’d say I have had a few big risks the first one was when my husband and I packed up our four kids and a I haul with all our belongings and moved to Florida .. my second one was going back to school for my nursing degree while I was taking care of my dad in his last years of life and my third one was going Thur with my gastric bypass surgery even after they told me I had had a silent heart attack some time in the previous year. I will be packing up my kids again and moving back to Florida so we can be closer to my son and grandkids this upcoming year.
I am in no way a risk taker at all. However when I was in my twenties I didn’t know if I wanted to be a mom. I didn’t have that insatiable yearning to be a mom if you know what I me. It scared me because I don’t grow up in a loving home. I grew up with a busy single mom who drank alcohol every weekend, she was a good mom, but that was when she took her “me” time and playing mom wasn’t the part on her agenda. I don’t remember live and affection. Then I also scared what kind of world would the kids grow up in, and would they have to adult in. It was already getting bad whe I was in my twenties, and I knew it was going to get worse. Then I found a guy who wanted kids. And I married him. 2 kids later…..I don’t regret a thing by becoming a mom. They are my pride and joy. I know every mom says that, and I know it’s true. But my 2 boys are the best to me, and the best thing I have ever done in my life, and the best risk I will ever take!!!!
I took some risks when I was younger, now that I’m older I don’t take as many risks. The one thing I did was getting married to the wrong person, however the most beautiful risk out of that was having my beautiful baby girl. She’s definitely amazing and the best part of a bad situation.
Also she is the brightest light in my life.
Sending my ten year old daughter to Australia. She turned out so self sufficient.
This year I put my photography in the local gallery exhibit and actually sold 2 pictures. I also entered some in the local show and won 3 prizes and had a request to do a wedding. I’ve always feared that I’m not good enough with what I do and that I couldn’t put myself out there. But I did this year and it paid off. Next year I’m going even further with it
Two of the biggest risks I’ve take are moving myself across the country to a place where I knew no one and starting a YouTube and social media fitness channels. I’d say these were more flops than successes, but I’ve learned a lot of lessons along the way!
I am not much of a risk taker. I tend to stay in my lane and keep striving that way. But congrats to those who put it all on the line, whether they won or lost.
I dont take many risks but leaving my ex husband was a big one and after i met a wonderful man and we now have a child.
Hmmm, not really a risky person tbh but I did push myself to network for some cyber security jobs
I am not a risk taker but looong back the biggest risk I took was packing my bags after graduating from high school in NJ and moving to Florida with my then boyfriend to go to college. We broke up 3 years later but it was still the best decision I ever made.
I moved away from my family when I was in my early 20s. It helped me separate and experience life. The good the bad and the ugly of life. But I still wouldn’t have changed it.
26 years ago I married my husband. He wasn’t the “safe” choice. He was my choice and I was his. We are still going strong today.
I took on a new role at my job. It is a mixed bag, to be honest.
Moving provinces to be with my then boyfriend. He’s my whole life and I can’t imagine how my life would have turned out without him. The best husband and dad.
Definitely changing my job. I worked for my previous job for 12 years nearly, had a terrible work life balance, worked stupid hours and was always grouchy, sad and tired. Now I’ve been in this job for 9 years nearly and I get to work from home, work the hours I need between 7am and 6pm so I can adjust as needed. Get to work extra in the week to finish earlier on a Friday. Much better now. I’m still sad and tired but that’s due to my disability lol
Your answer was amazing! I am sharing that with my daughter.
I take small risks, usually I metaphorically shut my eyes and jump. But one of the bigger risks I have taken is getting married at 35. I had only one “real” relationship and it was pretty abusive and I vowed not to every get married and I like my single life. Well a friend decided to capture me and after 6 months we married. He had a 14 yr old son and my daughter was 11. It was rough adjusting the first couple of years. But 15 years later we laugh cause sex gets weird as you age and we play like teenagers and I keep this man on his toes. Our kids are siblings in the truest sense and I joke that Christmas 2010 I gave my daughter the best gift…a new dad and brother. Anyway thank you for making me reflect
I’m not a risk taker. When I was younger I was, now I’m more cautious, more guarded.
moving to a new town
Traveling by myself.
I bought my first car. I didn’t know how it was going to go because I didn’t look at it beforehand because they had it in the shop so we couldn’t look at it but I signed the papers I waited a week for them to have it detail and then I brought it home and so far it’s been amazing nothing’s wrong with it.*knock on wood*
I teared up when I read your response. I love what I see a braveness, because as I get older, I definitely take less and less risks. I don’t feel I’ve taken any big risks in my life just a lot of smaller ones. I think everyone does that without really thinking about it. Cagey response, eh?
Taking out a mortgage in my own name when my ex-husband left me with 2 children. It was risky and hard- but paid off as my kids are now bossing it in the working world and have massive respect for me and how I kept a roof over their heads.
I avoid risks like a plague
Taking out a mortgage in my own name when my ex-husband left me with 2 children. It was risky and hard- but paid off as my kids are now bossing it in the working world and have massive respect for me and how I kept a roof over their heads.
I chose a university because my boyfriend at the time went there, but we broke up before school started, and I took a risk and still went to the school. It was more of an FU I’m still going here, but it was scary because the school was a couple of states away from where my family was, etc. It was a great decision, not because we got back together, we didn’t (thank goodness), but some of my greatest friends were made at that school, and I earned a degree too!
I had a one-night-stand…
Neither one of us planned on it being more than that.
But we’ve been together now for more than 20 years.
Well I met a man 20 years ago that I didnt expect I’d end up building a life with ❤️
I’m not a huge risk taker at all. When I was younger, I was but the older I get the more nervous about risks I get. I think maybe the biggest risk that I took that paid off was packing up my family and moving to Tennessee from Connecticut. I have found some of the best people that I’ve ever had in my life here. I was bullied a lot when I was growing up. So I never really had friends that I could trust or consider my true friends . I’m in my 40s now and I have five of the best girlfriends I’ve ever had and I wouldn’t trade one of them for anything.
Going back to school at 33 years old to further my career. Been tough but 1 more semester and I graduate!!
Starting my own business! I am a licensed nail technician! I’ve had my own nail studio now for 2 years! 🥰
I’ve taking a lot of risks and nothing hasn’t panned out yet. Doesn’t mean I’m not gonna keep trying 😊
Honestly, I don’t know because I don’t like taking risks. I can’t really think of any that come to mind other than possibly quitting My job at 24 to pursue the career I’m in now and I’ve been there for eighteen years.
I was gonna say my job.. but kinda thinking it would maybe payoff if I changed jobs and got out this toxic place
Gastric bypass surgery. It went horrible wrong But it was not the weight loss that was the paid off, but the complete change in my attitude. I became confident in myself for the first time in my life.
My biggest risk was marrying my husband when I was 18. We just celebrated our 30th anniversary. Not to say there haven’t been times when I questioned if it was worth it but LOVE prevailed.
Walking away from the church.
I’m not much of a risk taker. I did travel by myself for the first time when the first Book Bonanza happened in Denver. That was a little scary, but I ended up meeting such great book friends that the trip turned out to be so much fun.
I’m not a risk taker. I like planning everything out.
My friendships. I have a group of ladies that span from junior high school to later in life. They all are a blessing that I cherish everyday.
Last year I quit my job to go to nursing school and now I have only 6 weeks left until I graduate! I will do it, I am so proud of myself.
For me it was 115 years ago when I left a high paying job with a multi-billion dollar company. I took a nearly 60% payout but the life and bond with my son (2 at the time) I was able to build after that move JS been 1,000% worth it.
I took a work from home job, thinking it was probably a scam. It’s not, it’s a normal job, I just get to do it from the comfort of my bedroom/office. I have a MUCH better work and life balance now, and love every minute of it! Except when my kids are home… that gets a little crazy.
I’m not the biggest risk taker. I guess the biggest risk I’ve taken is applying for a job that I wasn’t the most qualified for and getting it!
A couple years ago I started working a job that was mostly all men. It wasn’t easy going from retail to construction, but I absolutely loved it and has been my all-time favourite job and I would never have thought that that would be the career I would end up being in, but it’s the best choice I ever made
Most recently I heard that an acquaintance may be in the market for an assistant. I was volunteering at the time and had a quiet moment to just approach him directly and ask when he was planning to hire. He was a bit caught off guard but didn’t miss a beat. He said let’s talk over lunch next week. We did. The next day I received a formal job offer. I love my job and was so pleased to show my kids that sometimes you have to just take a chance and ask directly for what you want. If you really want something the risks are worth it. And if it doesn’t work out, you can know that it wasn’t for a lack of trying.
I went into an interview for a job that was out of my wheelhouse seven years ago. I was a school bus driver for 16 years and then the company I worked for filed bankruptcy. I went to work with the clients I transported in a day hab setting after that but was injured and had to face the facts that I would never be able to perform any job that wasn’t an office setting/desk job. It was hard and it sucked. I went in thinking they wouldn’t hire me due to experience but they hired me as a seasonal staff for a trial period of 6 months during their busy Winter Program. Once my contract was almost up I decided to approach HR and my supervisor and ask for a permanent position. They agreed and since 2018, I went from seasonal to full time to a Back-Up Coordinator of a Department with a staff of seven that I supervise daily. It was a significant pay cut as well but I couldn’t be happier. My daughter talked me into going to the interview and told me I could do what ever I put my mind to. She is my best friend and my biggest supporter. I have been there for 7 years and am not even considering moving on.
I’m not much of a risk taker so I can’t say I’ve done much risk wise, I over analyze everything
I started at 19 as a massage therapist. Worked as a nurse’s aid at a top hospital Burn/Trauma ICU & Surgical ICU where I got to be part of face transplants and other incredible medicine while going to school for nursing. They moved to hospice as a nurse falling in love with the process and going to school to become a nurse practitioner and working in primary care to get my clinical hours. Only for the world to show me a new path. I fell into a job at a brand new alternative charter school (I call us oj pulp concentrate… if you took the students who don’t fit in or struggle for reasons ranging from previously being trafficked to going through sexual transitioning and needing a safe place to oppositional defiance and beyond for over 40 communities getting diplomas for the forgotten kids) I never knew I needed this life but I LOVE it and the kids, I’ve never stayed this long at a job always loving change but this school is exactly that with the benefit of changing lives in the best ways.
Actually I feel like an alternative school could be right up your alley for your writing.
Unfortunately, I am not a real risk-taking person!
I did take a trip to Europe with other people from the US to meet up with people in Europe to attend three big KOL concerts. That was so out of my realm and I was so proud of myself that I did it. I have awesome memories from it and lifelong friends.
Years ago, I was broke, unemployed, and in a loveless relationship. He was taking care of me andI loved him for 7+ years but I was depressed. Took a risk and left him. Best decision I ever made!
Leaving a job after 25 years for a total fresh start in a new field
I moved clear across country with my family. We moved from Indiana to Montana and I absolutely love it here!
My husband and I took the risk that we’d be okay financially, retiring early (by about 5 years), and moving to the beautiful north GA mountains. It definitely paid off!
Buying 40 acres of land in WI and working on an offgrid cabin. Slow process but steady. So far it’s paying off as we get our firewood from that land and it is an absolute peaceful piece of land.
32 years ago I took a chance and moved South near the beach, instead of staying up North near the mountains and finding another Corporate job. It was a complete life change for me. I’ve never regretted it! My life was completely different than I thought it would be, and I’ve loved every minute of it for the last 32 years!
When I moved from NY to Florida. I am so much happier 🙂
Risked my best friend and our friendship in highschool to try and see if we should date and ended up with the love of my life and we’ve been married for over 20 years!
I retired early. I had 25 years of teaching in, I was 54. It was the best choice I could have made. I was angry at my bosses. I was burnt out. It was affecting my health. So I got permission to leave six months early, and I’ve never regretted the choice. I’ll have challenges down the road, I’m sure, but I’m willing to figure that out because that stress will be way less than what I was dealing with.
Best risk I ever took was not giving up on me, it was choosing to fight to stay alive even when depression would drag me to the deepest, darkest parts of hell in my mind. Choosing life was the best risk I ever made.
I think it was working for a second start up! I made a good salary, earned hotel points I’m still using! It did get old though!
Leaving a well-paying job to be a stay-at-home mom.
A risk I took..when I dont like taking risks…is that I invested in myself. To make myself healthier and Im.doing it and feel better and happier.
Left an abusive 20 yr relationship and moved hundreds of miles away
Merry Christmas friends. I going back to school next year. So scared. But i know it will go well.
Dating a co-worker. I always was against getting into “office romances”(even though I do love that trope in books!).
To the point where when he first asked me out, I ended up not showing up for drinks. 😂
He was persistent though, and asked again. Here we are, almost 10 years later, with three kids, a house, and a perfect circus of a life that I wouldn’t trade for the world.
Leaving “Home” and finding myself when I turned 18. It’s a long story but I wouldn’t be who I am today, married to my husband for 10 years with two beautiful children
Well i left my parents house to get married and the end result i got a beautiful daughter out of it and now a granddaughter.
Going back to school to be a teacher.
I am not a risk taker- I overthink everything!!! But this year I had some health issues and searched for a new doctor who actually listened!!!
I have cerebral palsy and use a wheelchair. People told me that I would never be able to drive. It took me until I was 32 but I got my driver’s license and a handicapped accessible van.
Going for a promotion even though it really scared me to take that next step.
I am not a risk taker at all!
Leaving my ex husband. He had made it clear that he would kill me. Told me exactly how he would do it, and what he would do to hide my body so that I would never be found. But then, he didn’t do any of that. It freaked me out always looking over my shoulder waiting on him, but I guess he figured out that too many people knew about his threats so for whatever reason, he didn’t. That last year of marriage was hell, I’d never wish what I went through on anyone else, not even my worst enemy. So yeah, leaving him was a huge risk, but if I didn’t, I wouldn’t have my husband or my younest son.
I joined the US Navy.
I’m ashamed to say I’m not much of a risk taker. I honestly can’t think of a risk I’ve taken that’s paid off. How sad is that? I would hope there’s something that I’m not thinking of, but who knows?
I started on a GLP1 this year, I was scared of needles and the cost but it was the smartest thing I could have done.
Allowing myself to let go and fall in love with my now husband. There is still some shock and awe (disbelief?) in my family and friends back where I grew up. Even 23 years later.
I’m not really a risk taker, but maybe after I get my health back, who knows
I’m not a big risk taker. Can’t think of any thing to say to answer that question.
Meeting and then dating my husband. We’ve been together for 34 years, married for 26, and have one amazing son. Best decision I’ve ever made. I’m truly Blessed. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! 🎄🎉🎄🎉🎄🎉🎄
Hopping on a plane to Europe with $500 in my name at 21. After planning for a week I might add. Barely spoke the language and grew up on a tiny Island in Caribbean. Talk about culture shock. It wasn’t easy but luckily I didn’t had to do anything illegal to survive. Lol 20+ years later I’m living my best life. No regrets (as scary as it was) !
A year and a half ago we decided I needed to quit working bc my back was getting so much worse. Money is tight but our home has blossomed so much. Less stress about so many things, our kids are happier that I am home when they get off school everyday and can spend more time with them 🩵
Honestly, it hasn’t happened yet. However, I’m anticipating some big risks for 2026 and I’m looking forward to them paying major dividends.
I’m not a risk taker, I wish I was! Julie, you ROCK! Reading your answer just empowered me to do some changes to my life! Will see what 2026 brings? Sparkle and shine this holiday season!
Changed career paths in my 30’s. Best decision I have ever made.
Moving from New York to California
When I switched jobs! 😀
Oh man I wish I had the balls to take risks like real risks. The biggest risks I take is hiking alone and zip lining lol
In 2018 I took a risk and bought a home for me and my now wife an hour away from my hometown cause it’s where she wanted to live and I wouldn’t change anything about my decision!!
In 2014 I made the decision to change jobs and it couldn’t have been a better decision! I love the company I work for and the staff I have working with me. It was scary because I had been with the previous company for 10 years but it ended it being so worth it!
Five years ago we started our own take out food business and so far so good. It can be a struggle sometimes but it supports itself and pays the bills. Just no extras
Living day by day.
Asking for help for my son. I threw pride out the window for him.
Hopped careers from pharmacy to State work and applied for a top supervisor position a year and a half after I started and got the position.
Moving to the west coast for a job.
I dont remember if i did this one but all the books seem so good and interesting, im from an Italian family, i can relate to a lot and would really love to get into reading these books, trying something new, I have 7 1/2 years clean/sober and trying to get into more new healthy things to keep my mind busy, I could go into a whole big thing about me but im jist going to take the chance on hope and hope I get to win and get the chance to read and enjoy some of these
Leaving one part time job to work full time at my other part-time job. Well worth the risk, more hours and more money.
Letting go of friends that were toxic and that I had to spend way too much time catering to. It’s been a total win.
I’m not much of a Risk Taker, I’m an over planer 🙂 so by the time I make the decision to move forward I know the outcome.
The only big thing I think I really ever done is I left organized religion. I still believe in God, but I don’t necessarily believe in the men who run churches.
I’d have to say my life spiritually is much better.
I was raised in a very strict conservative environment.
The only real risk I took was when I got married at 18 and now I have been married to my best friend for almost 30 years. He was in the Navy so we went through some really tough times but we always stayed together and we got stronger because of it.
I took a job with a company that had bad reviews from employees. I’ve been working there 4 years and am excelling.
Sadly I am risk averse but that also means I am heavy with regret.
Moved to UK change the job have 4 kids while building my career
My biggest risk was quitting a steady job when my husband became ill, for a demotion with a lot of opportunities to advance and learn. Before a year passed, I advanced to management and received a substantial increase. Everyone told mevI was crazy, but we thought it was a good move.
Moving 800 miles away from home! I literally knew if we didn’t leave where we were, that I wouldn’t be able to take it there anymore and something would go horribly wrong. And while I miss some of my family, I don’t regret it at all!
I’m not a risk taker. Anxiety holds me back
I went skydiving! I’ve always wanted to do it and the year i turned 32,I was having a hard time. Both my bio mom and adoptive mom developed different cancers at age 32. Therefore, I wanted to skip 32 and go straight to 33! Lol As a surprise, my husband saved money and took my skydiving in my 32nd birthday. He wanted to remind me to live my life and not be afraid about things that haven’t happened yet, if ever. I’m now 49 and I’m so grateful for the risk of jumping out of a plane at 3,200ft and living!
The biggest risk i took was moving to Fl from NY with my 1yo and husband. With on money and no jobs lined up. We decided about 3 weeks before we fully moved. We moved in Feb 1st 2020! That was a tough year but we made it, and now we are thriving.
I moved to get away from an abusive situation and it was the best thing for me. I am in a much better place in my life and I’m safe now.
I am too much of an overthinker to take risk. It sucks being an overthinker.
I drove 12 hours to meet the guy I’d been playing final fantasy 11 online with for over 6 months. We’ve now been together almost 21 years and married for almost 20.
Moving to a new location for work was a huge risk because once you have an amazing team that runs like a well-oiled machine, it’s a risk to leave that group to start up a new location. As much as I miss my old team and still refer to them as my “dream team,” I’m so much happier at this new location that I could have imagined. It was the right choice for my work life AND my personal life. I’m so glad I went with my gut and took the risk.
Getting married lol!
Going back to school and still working full time.
moving to a new state
I was more of a risk taker when I was younger…..I haven’t taken a big risk in a long time though I probably should! I guess two big ones long ago were quitting a job without a new one lined up (that was scary!) and before that leaving my childhood home urgently (with help) to escape an abusive situation. That one definitely changed my life for the better.
Getting married to a Marine. Come up on 31 years!!
Moving in with my boyfriend after dating for 3 months😂 I was 18. He proposed 6 months later, got married a year after that and we celebrate 12 years of marriage in June and just had our third baby. Best crazy decision ever
I had been divorced for a year and a friend opened a profile for me on match.com. I met a guy and took the risk to meet him for coffee-we are still married, 20 years later
Moving to Ireland 17 years ago
The man i told no every time he asked me to marry him finally wore me down and I said yes, we’ve been married 23 years.
I left an absolutely miserable job to move on to what would be my favorite, most fulfilling job ever!
Buying our house. We were not sure if we were ready but I knew there wouldn’t be another opportunity
I overthink way too much so it’s hard taking risks tbh. I can’t remember the last big risk 😅
At this point – nothing. Not a dang thing! My only joy are my two boys.
I have taken a few risks in my life. But, I’m glad I did. It’s never too late to start over. To carve out a new life and be absolutely happy & it’s good for your health
Moved across country twice and moved from being a teacher to principal
Moving to a different town for grad school
I joined the military and it was the best decision I could have done. I’ve had so many opportunities and adventures because of it.
Moving from a small Midwestern town to the big city to pursue my dream education & when I found myself homeless between semesters I put all my stuff in storage & went to volunteer for 3+ months to help rebuild after Hurricane Katrina.
I started my own business selling fabrics and craft kits working from home. Now I have my own quilt Shop in a small country town an hour from the main city in our state.
I went back to college when my daughter started school. It was a struggle but I graduated with my degree in Accounting. I may not have a job in that field but it did help me get a job a few years ago.
My biggest risk was taking over the procurement department in an interim as VP, I honest did not know whether I could do or whether I wanted to manage people. But is did pay off because when the new VP came she moved me from being a contract officer to AVP of Procurement. I have been with the agency I work at for 20 years in the same department and I started out an Office Support to work my way up to the current position I hold. I would be the first to tell anyone that I am a risk taker, I like to play it safe.
I said yes to a marriage proposal from a guy who had 2 Ex-Wives and after only knowing the guy a month. Nine months later we were married. Did I mention I am wife #3?
Fast-forward 27 years to now and we are empty nesters.
Although I was never blessed with any biological children I had the honor of raising our son from wife #2.
The biggest risk I ever took was love.
I recommend everyone take this risk over and over.
After all it took my hubby 3 times to get it right, so don’t give up on love.
Stepping out of my comfort zone to work on my dream becoming reality.
I don’t take risks.
I technically should not be working but about a many years didn’t and a win in Federal court for disability that sent me back to the orig al turned me down thee times jusge with the federal court saying I’m totally disabled and why he still turned me down agin. So I went back to work for twinges a day in a school. My responsibilities have grown and this year I am teaching a literature class and the library. I didn’t want to teach ever but I’m actually enjoying it. But it’s also reading and that’s something I’m really good at.
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In Feb ’03 on Valentine’s day my son was stillborn after 9 months 4 days. It was the most devastating time of my life.
8 years later, many tears, much prayer , I had a healthy baby boy.
Today, he is 14. He’sy heart.
Fighting for a surgery that I needed
I have taken a lot if risks that haven’t paid off. But one that did is quitting my job as an Agriculture Accountant and getting my current job as the Controller at a nonprofit animal rescue organization. I love my job and the organization as well as the impact it has in the community.
I’m not really a risk taker. I’m a procrastinator. But I’m willing to give things a go, so maybe that’s where I’m a risk taker? I’m not afraid of new things. But perhaps they are calculated risks, where ‘failure’ isn’t going to harm me?
Buying my house when I did. If I had waited, it would’ve cost so much more
Paying all my bills off when I was 24 and continuing to stay debt free. I’m 58
Leaving home at 19 an moving to another town to go to university. I had to work to support myself and was afraid it wouldn’t work. But I was lucky, met some great friends and got my diploma in mathematics.
Marring for the second time… it is working out great so far
Honestly, opening my heart and falling in love with my husband. I’ve been hurt so many times that I was absolutely petrified to open myself up to my husband. But, after having support from my family and friends, I did, and now we are happily married with an incredible 1 year old daughter who is a ray of sunshine!
I’m not really a risk taker. I guess the most recent risk was buying my home. Luckily I had the super of my parents to aid me in the process and it’s working out.
Hitting on my husband…30 years strong…lol
I was typically a calculated risk taker… thinking about the risk, envisioning all the possibilities whether good, bad, or indifferent, and devising contingency plans for every possible outcome. Of course there was always something that I didn’t plan for (eventually I learned that I can’t possibly know all the outcomes, so just jump and work with or through wherever I land).
My big risks worked well until they didn’t… I ultimately followed the path that appeared. Remaining flexible and mastering adaptability meant I could keep taking the big risks. Accepting that for now I’m exactly where I should be and doing exactly what I should be doing. The possibilities will always be endless.
Sadly, I have become less of a risk taker as I have grown older. In my early twenties I hitched around Europe and tried so many different things. Once I had my children I changed, and though I was in a difficult, challenging marriage, I stayed. That said I amabout to sell my house and set out on a new adventure! Yay!!
It was a joint risk with me and my hubby but we moved 4 hrs away from friends and family for better jobs then 3 months found out I was pregnant.
Moving to Alaska without knowing anyone but my boyfriend.
I dont do anything lol I am sick a lot. I sit in my house and read.
Responding to the first test message from my ex husband in 20 years. We text everyday and are like best friends.
My big risk is asking my sister a favor. Sometimes it’s ok.
The other times she complained alot.
I move thousands of miles away from home and family. I had some hard times but years later, it has paid off. I’m in a better mental health space, independent, and found strength that I had lacked.
When it happens I will let you know
Applying for slasher i was scared but I made so many friends and it pays good
My divorce.
Life after being diagnosed with MS
Fear is the greatest debilitator.
Taking those leaps into the unknown?
Worth it!!!!
When I was 16, I did the opposite of what my normal self would do and I said yes to a date with the “baddest” boy in our high school. He turned out to be a marshmallow on the inside and my biggest champion through life. We’ve been together since that first date on December 17, 1989.
My anxiety won’t let me take risks, so I don’t know.
I’m not really a risk taker, so this is a tough one. I guess the most recent risk was saying I would help with the theater department productions at the high school where I work. I got thrown in as the set design/build/run crew director, having not done much backstage work before. It has been an educational but very fun experience and I will definitely do it again if asked.
I left the sercurity of a steady job to go travel the US teaching professionals how to inject neurotoxins and fillers. I had no idea it would be a whole new career for me.
Honestly, i can’t say any of my risks have really paid of, not that I’ve taken that many in my life thanks ro anxiety
I packed up and moved from the East coast to the West coast to have a relationship with my now husband.
May seem like a weird answer but going on my very first cruise and traveling completely by myself. Discovered my favorite way of traveling and made some lifelong friends.
Wanted to build a house. The first builder went under and we lost a lot of money but we were stuck in a contract and got in debt to stick with it but finally built our house.
I moved from New York to Pennsylvania after talking to my husband for just a month. Best decision ever made
Moving across the country where I ended up meeting my husband and building a life
The major risk I took was 41 years ago, when I left my small hometown and moved to Dallas, TX with my then boyfriend. We had met when we both worked at the same company, only 9 months before! Needless to say, we were married the following year and have remained in the North Central Texas area, where we raised our 3 children that all attended Texas A&M University!
Risk was applying for a new job at another location within the same company and getting the job. Now I just need to let work know
I don’t really take risks, but I did make the choice to go thru with weightloss surgery in 2024. I’m now 100 pounds lighter and feel better than ever.
I am really not much of a risk taker. I plan everything. However, the biggest thing i ever did was divorce my first husband and move to California. Best thing I ever did to get my life on track.
33 years ago, I quit my job because I didn’t want to go through another change of hands. My boss at the time offered me a job at another business he owned. Best chance I ever took
I’m not much of a risk-taker, but I went for my Master’s and graduated. Doing volunteer work to get the position I want with my degree.
Exaggerating my work skills to get my first career job.
Traveling by myself. It began when I moved to another state for a job and was alone in the beginning. I love to travel so I took trips by myself to explore many states and then I eventually traveled to Europe by myself as well. I now travel with my husband (who loves to travel, obviously…lol) and our children, who have been to many places in the world.
Moving to Florida back in 2014
Getting married and building our first house at 20. We had no idea what we were doing, toughed it out through the lean times and over 30 years later life is looking pretty good.
Left a toxic job!
Enrolled in college on the other side of the country with $200 in my pocket and a LOT of fear!
Don’t use my degree anymore, but I met my husband and some amazing found family!
Moving cities. The reason behind the move didn’t work out, but the new job gave me experiences that allowed to me to apply for better jobs to get where I am now. Not sure what I’d be doing now if I’d never left!
My risk has paid off . I married my boyfriend 44 years ago . 2 sons , wonderful DIL and 9 grandchildren. My husband retired this year 2025. I retire as a nurse hopefully in 2026. Wouldn’t change a thing. 💕
I guess my biggest risk was moving from NY to Massachusetts. Sure, it’s not that far but it’s a whole other world here and it took me a long time to feel at home. All these years later, im glad I did but im ready to risk it all again.
Cheers and thanks xx
Starting my own event and wedding business 10 years ago
I started dating a guy that wasn’t my “normal type”. 11 years later we’ve got a great life and he helped me get out of a dead end job into a good career.
I followed my dream for my career and it has finally paid off.
I took the chance and moved in with my boyfriend. Its been 2 year and love it and him.
Left an unhealthy work environment.
Giving my now husband a second chance. He was 3 hours late for our first date.🤣 In his defence he did work nights.
I don’t often take risks, as I play it pretty safe.
Moving to Washington to live by my grandbabies. It’s been hard but they know me, not just a picture on a screen.
Not a single one
Going to college when I was 30 with 2 young kids and getting a divorce. I made it through then I purchased my first house alone at 51 and maintain it myself .. I’m very proud of myself!
I left him!
Getting back with an ex I mean they are that for a reason but 22 years later we’re happy and have a beautiful family
Falling in love and getting married. It’s not easy trusting someone to always be there for you. But it’s paid off for me we’ve been together for 13 years. Well married for 13 years,
Changing careers. I went from working in an office to working with children that has special needs.
For me, it was back when I was co-oping and thought I wanted to go into research. I did my final co-op rotations before graduating in industry and loved it. I’m now working where I co-oped.
Applying for a job that I didn’t think I was qualified for
Moving to Aspen in my twenties with no job, no plan. I met my husband and we’re still married 42 years later.
I took a risk when I changed jobs but it worked out good in the long run,
23 years ago I took a big risk and moved from Wisconsin USA to North Western Ontario Canada. All because of a man. Crazy I know.
We have a family cabin on a lake in this small town that my great grandfather bought in 1950. After 30 years of me traveling to the cabin I was introduced to a 37 year old man that has been in the cabin every summer for his whole life. I’m sure we have always known each other but 7 years older we wouldn’t have hung out together. We knew each others family’s. After two years of seeing him on and off and traveling to see each other we decided to give it a try. Somehow it just worked. I have dual citizenship and although am no longer in that town and have moved a couple of times. It has become my home.
I took a risk and gave my husband a second chance and now we have been married 28 years and have 4 beautiful kids and a beautiful life!
Moving it taught me independence and to enjoy my travels
I moved to the east coast from central Texas right after college where I met my husband and created a beautiful family.
I’m the opposite of a risk taker. I’m drawing a blank on risks. I’m like the turtle, slow and steady wins the race. Even as a child, I was the mom of the group. Trying to keep everyone else out of trouble
Telling someone how I felt about them and their actions. It was freeing and it did cost me a friend, but it also made my life less stressful
I left my toxic husband .
Leave when it doesnt fit. Jobs, relationships, friendships….if it’s not for you, it’s ok. Find what is. You’ll be so much happier.
I have taken several risks that I am proud to say have been for the best. I decided to be a stay at home Mom. It was rough at times but I’m so grateful I was able to do it. We moved to SC from NJ and it was the best move. We love living in SC.
Moving back to my hometown as a single mom and starting all over
I ended a bad relationship, quit my job, packed up myself and my son and moved from NY to Chicago in the span of 3 weeks. It took me a few years to build a new career in a new field but it was 1000% the best and most frightening thing I’ve ever done. I wouldn’t change a thing.
Getting a makeshift tattoo in a sketchy hotel room😂 it’s been covered up now!
I can honestly say, I don’t think I’ve had a risk I’ve taken pay off for me yet. Sad as that is.
Moved to a country on the other side of the world to start over in my early thirties and now I’m married after never been in a relationship for more than 4months… I’m happy and fulfilled and the best is yet to come!
I took a risk to go back to school and finish my degree after I dropped out. It paid off by feeling like I finished what I started. It also helps me to be able to apply to jobs that I otherwise wouldn’t be qualified for.
Leaving my homestate. Most rewarding and terrifying thing ever
Taking the job that I ended up working for 46+ years. Just out of high school I was offered a job at the local hospital that just opened. This job was in a department that if you haven’t worked in a hospital environment, you have no idea it exists. Central Supply, now called Central Sterile Processing, is where we clean, reprocess and sterilize surgical instruments prior to use in surgery.
Anyway this did work out for me, and I’m glad I took that job, even if I had never heard of this part of a hospital.
I was always the risk taker or dare devil. I didn’t think twice unless I’d end up in jail or in a hospital. Almost 2 years ago I took a risk in leaving my comfortable job to begin a job in management. Something I’ve never done. I’ve learned so much of myself in these almost 2 years. I’m grateful I took that risk.
Making a career change when I was unhappy with the situation I was in.
I got married to a military man. We have been to different places and are still married over thirty years later.
Getting into baking. I had a late fiancé that liked to stifle my creativity and didn’t want me to be better than him at anything. So he would try to psych me out.
My biggest risk was taking my 3 kids and moving from Puerto Rico to New Jersey.
I found out in January 2024 that I was pregnant with my first child. I had been at the same job for almost 3 years, my first big girl job, but I started to hate it. My mentor at that job left the previous year and was talking to me about her new employer and how great they were. I decided to apply and interview, hoping just to get some leverage for a raise. I couldn’t imagine getting a new job while pregnant. Once I interviewed, I fell in love with the job and company. There was some back and forth from both companies trying to compete, but I took the plunge and decided to start over. I am still at the job and even received a promotion after returning from maternity leave! It really was a decision that changed mine and my families future for the better!
I’m not a big risk taker, but this year I resigned from a toxic work environment with no idea what would come next… and it’s turning out pretty well
Idk. I’m not very risky
Following a fierce woman in the Bahamas to a sketchy looking tattoo shop.. One of my favorite tattoos I ever got and a fond memory my husband and I laugh about even like 6years later
I should say she commanded us to follow her. Rereading that it sounds terrible.
Getting married after just 6 months together. It worked out. Next year we celebrate 19 years!
Learning to walk away and not allow anyone to hurt me or treat me in a way I didn’t deserve
I can not think of any because I am unfortunately an over thinker. If I do it, I already thought of all the risks and feel confident in my choice. If it’s a risk I just decide against it. Wish I was different l, but I play it safe.
In my 20s, deciding in June that breaking my lease to move to a new state to start graduate school in Aug was the only way to fix my messed up life. It was a whirlwind of a move and five really hard years of school but I met my husband there. 20+ years and 4 kinds later, I am so glad I did it.
We fought to get guardianship of our grandson and got it.
I have a progressive eye disease that has caused me to go blind slowly over the years period in 2019. My boss was trying to downsize and asked if I was ready to retire on disability at age 52. I did not think that I could financially afford it, but I went ahead and said yes and have been enjoying my life ever since. Now I get to stay home and watch my grandchildren.
This kind of extends from the last question. I decided late in life to become a first responder and actually did it! I never dreamed I’d become something more and continue growing but I feel I am every day so I guess showing my kids that you can achieve anything is possible is a huge thing to be proud of! Thank you so much!! ❤️📚❤️
Finding the love of my life within months of my first marriage ending, and just going for it. The rebound was the best decision ever!
I let my husband start his own business while I stayed in my safe job that I didn’t love. He’s still working at 73 and bringing in extra money while I’m collecting a pension
I don’t think I have any risks that I have done.
A risk that paid off? Probably my photography. I would’ve never thought that I’d be where I am today with it. I have broken into sports, with our local SPHL hockey team for a web based media outlet. And I’ve broken into concert photography, covering acts like Skillet, Halestorm, KISS, just to name a few. Now if I could get paid, that’d be great. But I get to see some fantastic games and shows as a perk!
Traveling to a foreign country with someone I hadn’t known for very long.
I’m not a big risk taker. I wish I was someone braver than I am.
One risk that has massively paid off for me is buying a house. I rented for 21 years, and was so over tan carpet and white walls. Now that rent prices have skyrocketed, I’d be homeless without my comparatively low mortgage payments. (I’m disabled and money wouldn’t stretch far enough for $1,000/month at best.)
Opened my own restaurant at 18, expanded it and successfully owned and operated it for 18 plus years, went back to school got a masters and started teaching. I need to find a new goal and risk to focus on now.
I left a longtime (27 1/2 years) job and started working at a brand new hospital and never looked back
Painting my walls pink.
Meeting up with some rando on MySpace (my age is showing🤣). We talked for 2 weeks then met up at Buffalo Wild Wings for dinner. He came home with me that night and never left! We married 7 months later and have now been together 17 years and have 3 kids!
Having a baby even though we didn’t have money or family to help
I am not a risk taker. I over think everything.
Going on a date. Been married 29 years and have a 26 year old son as a result.
Took a pay cut to leave a job where I was unhappy and then found another one a year later where I feel like I belong and am valued. 💜
A risk that payoff was picking up my first dark romance book, because that’s how I found a real coping mechanism that started healing my soul and making me a bit stronger. I found solace and understanding in this dark and twisted stories where psychological therapy have done nothing for me.
Moving away from everyone I know and the area I grew up in. The move was rough and the first 2 years stressful, but I believe without the move I would never have fulfilled 2 of my dreams.
Im an over thinker so I am not a risk taker
I packed my old truck right after I turned 19 & moved across the country. Had the timing not lined up perfectly, I never would’ve met my husband and I would’ve missed out on the beautiful adventure we started 11 years ago. I’m not that spontaneous, so it’s never something I planned on doing. But I needed to get away from a lot of things & I’m so glad I took a chance on myself.
Going to college. The loans were crazy but ultimately worth it. But I hope things change, the bubble bursts, and prices go down for others. I can’t imagine recommending college to my little nephew unless something changes in a good way by the time he graduates.
That’s a tough one, because I’ve spent most of my life avoiding risk.
I think taking crappy little delivery job, without regard for what anyone else thought of the idea, was a risk that has paid off. It was something I did purely for myself. Deciding to do that one small thing, that felt right for me in the moment, has made me braver and made it easier to make more decisions for myself, instead of for all the other people in my life.
Going back to college when my son was 12 weeks old. I not only did it, but I got all A’s!! I graduated and have been working as a radiographer ever since.
I think one of the biggest risks I ever taken was when my husband and I first got together. After 3 months of dating him, he moved in with me. I was going to lose my place and have to find somewhere else to live but he suggested it and I said ok we can try. We have been together for 25 years now so I say that risk was worth it.
Kissing my now husband for the first time, I was so nervous that he wouldn’t like me back. Turns out, he’d been pining for me for months at that point. He’s been the best thing in my life, always making sure I have nothing to stress about or be scared of.
Years ago I was driving to a job I hated. I had a boss that I felt was on the verge of sexually harassment. I decided not to go to work and visited a friend instead I couldn’t afford to loose a job but that one wasn’t for me. I looked forward a new job that night and found one immediately. I’ve been working for this family for almost 30 years now.
Moving out on my own
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Packing up everything I ever knew and moving to a whole new place on my own. I’ve never been so free.
Moving across the country to be with my long distance relationship. That was nine years ago. I am now married to the same person, we have two lovely kids, and a bunch of pets in a home together.
The risk I took in my 20’s was joining the Army. I did not want to become that same old person sitting in the same place wanting more just not knowing how to get to the end of the rainbow. So, I leaped forward and it paid itself 10-fold. Was it all unicorns and rainbows…HELL NO but would I do it again…HELL YES!! Best worst time of my life that led me to this place in my life!!! I am where I need to be with a loving husband, 2 crazy girls, 3 dogs, and too many cats… I love this leap I took 🙂
I am not a risk taker as a general rule but I was having incredible problems finding aides that could help out with my mother on the weekends (I couldn’t do it alone anymore) and the people sent by dif companies were just awful. Then my therapist mentioned a possible place to call [and considering I don’t think much of my therapist I wasn’t really thinking this would work] but I ended up not only with the original aide, but her niece, and in the beginning, her daughter as well (they were switching off). They were all quite helpful, sweet and kind to my mother and since that point in time, they’ve also become my evening people as well, since my mom needs 24/7 care.
This probably sounds like a silly “risk” but like I said, I don’t take risks. So this was a big deal for me.
I risked moving to a completely new city and State, Asheville from Cleveland. At the time in my life it was the best decision I could have made.
I’m waiting to see if this risk still pays off but so far it’s been good. I recently interviewed for and got a job doing something. I’ve never done before. While I still have no idea what exactly it is. I’m doing I am enjoying the journey. It requires a lot of self motivation and pretty much. I’m creating this job and making it into what I want. But it’s scary going in and not knowing anything.
Leaving the soul crushing but safe job, to go freelance and pursue my dream career… without any leads, direction, contacts or savings…
Unfortunately none. But if I could go back there’d be a few.
They never have.
I took a risk to leave a dangerous situation with my kids with no job or anything and now my kids are thriving.
16 year old me asking out a boy in 1994. Still together with one son and they’re both my whole world.
The biggest risk I ever dared, and had it pay off was marrying my husband. We were very young, had no money, different cultures/religions, lots of negative pushback. We are still going strong after more than 40 years.
Off the top of my head so far streaming the games i play, wasn’t sure if it wouldn’t go anywhere and here i am 2 months later and it’s been amazing
Leaving my husband when my children were younger. Paid off-because we were reunited and had a bonus baby.
Building our own house
Taking the summer off one year. Quit my job and went from New York City to Oxnard California and each state between
I took a risk in my career by doing a complete about- face bar on the fact that I finally figured out I’m a People Person, and I’ve been happy with my job ever since.
Getting married again after two horrible ones. This time it’s been amazing.
Getting divorced
I reluctantly said yes to a job and it turned out okay.
Met a guy online. Took a risk meeting him but we’ve been together 10 years!!!
Getting divorced and changing jobs.
My first son was stillborn, after 2 years of grieving. I waited and tried for 6 years for my now 14 year old son
I left my controlling unfairhful husband while he when on a drinking binge saying “have fun paying the bills” as he walked out the door over something ridiculous. We lived in Illinois at the time and he flew to Nevada to visit his sister, then Florida to visit his other sister and in the meantime I sold all the furniture, beds, cookware, dishes and packed mine and my two kids clothes and things. Put his clothes in black trash bags and set them on the porch, had the locks changed on the doors and gave the keys back to the landlord of the house we rented. He told his sister in Nevada when she asked about what would I do, he told her I would be sitting on my fat ass waiting for him to come home and I had just lost 50 lbs. and wasn’t fat not that that matters, but it pissed me off so bad. And that’s how I ended up living in Virginia and there’s another story there for another time.
i guess that would be the story of how my husband and i met. I was in college and he worked for my dad and asked by dad to ask me to find him a girlfriend (jokingly) and my mom was like “why don’t you date him?” and I was like sure, we can give it a try. Here we are 17 years later haha.
Moving to a new place – Found my best friends there…
When I saw my husband for the first time and felt that zing, just knowing that he was the one for me. I believe the universe made that moment happen. I was 16, now getting ready to be 55 on the 29th of December and we are still together. I used to be spontaneous and jump into the fray at any whim sent my way, but being older, I don’t like changes much any more.
That I got the hell out of my deadend home town.